Sex Toys, Lubes, etc
September 4th, 2006 by wendy
Not sure if you are ready to play with toys in your swinging experience — Or too afraid to ask!!
Well, toys are HOT AS FUCK to add anytime!! Â Some of us like toys solo more and other accessories during sex (the old man and I will do anything so we dont really count)
But for some, sex toys are still so taboo — so here goes!!
For vibes — your must have is the rabbit and a bullet — the bullet for anal and for him and the rabbit for solo work or going NUTSO
For lube — your must have is a great water - based like astro glide or sliquid.  Personally, I only use lube for oral and anal - my pussy is wet enough!  For anal, gotta be an awesome lube — think silicon based like Pjur. And for oral, this is flavor fun thing to make a blow job more exciting — I like ID in various flavors — right now I am into creme brulee but the mint also adds a tingly sensation!! Yummy!
Hot Weather and Naked Bodies
August 6th, 2006 by wendy
Ok — the hot weather has slowed down the swinging world for a bit but the parties that are out there are HOTTTT.   They are wet, wild, kinky, with very little clothing…. YUMMY
The power of Staff
July 30th, 2006 by wendy
Staff at a club can make all the difference.  They can be the sweetest people in the world who keep the club clean and make your experience incredible…. they keep you safe and happy and fed…. they truly mean everything to a club.
Some clubs dont get that and have TERRIBLE PEOPLE…… I spoke with one woman at a club in Texas who was nothing short of a complete CUNT.   Hmmm — doubt I would enjoy the experience there.
Other clubs have AMAZING great owners and staff who I have been dazzled by!
My advice from this little rant is THIS — GO TO THE ORIENTATION — ASK AROUND - GET THE VIBE!!  If you CLICK with the staff, good chance that you will click with the other patrons!!
SMOOOOCH!!
The Single Male
July 21st, 2006 by wendy
i know just the thought of the single male makes some swingers wince.   They tend to be just REALLY HORNY DUDES looking for group sex and they miss the whole swinger philosophy and swinger creed.   If you HATE single men, then just avoid them.  Go to the club on couples or single girls only night (some clubs do not allow single men ANYTIME)  Or make it clear in any dating or swinging posts that you are not looking for single men.
Remember, the single man does serve a very CRUCIAL part of the swinging lifestyle for many couples and it is my hope that they just get some manners about them and get back to having fun rather than creating drama
It’s a THEME party
July 15th, 2006 by wendy
Ok — some people find these really hot and others find them lame….. I find them really HOTT
Theme parties are a great way to live out your fantasy….. not sure if you have a hidden dominatrix…oooh then wait for the right party to give it whirl!!
Get INTO The spirit of the party and have fun and you will find the theme parties allow you to take it to a NEW LEVEL
Club Wear??
July 3rd, 2006 by wendy
Ok — sometimes it is difficult if you are new to swinging to know what constitutes club wear and what to take or wear to a club…..
You want to look your best — plain and simple. If you are amazing looking, wear something revealing and bring along some lingerie to wear when things heat up….
If you are less than amazing, go for something sexy and flirty — try not to look sloppy or messy — nobody wants to shag someone who does not look clean and well-groomed…
Hot Summer — Slow time for swinging
June 27th, 2006 by wendy
Ok — the swing clubs all slow down this time of year….but DAMN….. what a great time to swing. It is warm and beautiful and bodies are tanned and fit. Not sure where to go to find like minded people? Check out one of the HOT RESORTS if you need a weekend away or a vacation. Or if you live close to one, call and ask about a day pass……only thing better than laying in the sun naked with the one you love is being able to share in an erotic experience with other like-minded sexy individuals.
Hot Swing Clubs
June 25th, 2006 by wendy
part of my role at Uncensored will be to highlight hot clubs!! HOTNESS is not just about cool , sexy people but about a comfort level and a cleanliness and great staff —soooooooo…..
Check my HOT CLUBS section under the forum but also check back here often for more detailed club reviews!!
Kisses
Uberswinger
Let’s KICK IT
June 25th, 2006 by wendy
Welcome to Uncensored Couples — Where you can just kick back and be free! Our forum is a great place to relax, chat, meet new friends, find a hot club — etc!! No restrictions, not rules, no judgement…. SO ENJOY!!
Kisses
Uberswinger