Making it last — male stamina meets swinging
April 3rd, 2007 by uberswinger
Ever try to last longer? It is really something that a lot of women need because they are “slow to hit the gas” when it comes to sex and orgasm so the longer lasting man is usually a pleaser. If you cannot cum and go right back at it (don’t laugh — some men can cum and just keep going!!). If that is NOT you then try to work on lasting longer and a more controlled orgasm to keep your partner (or partners) satisfied.
So you are now skeptical saying things like “I wish” Well, here is something to try — put your porn habit on hold.
OUCH — no — I am a total supporter of porn being a fun distraction. And sometimes a marital aid. You are not necessarily putting the entire habit on hold — you are just going to not jack off to it for a couple of weeks.
If you can view it and not jack off, then great — if not, kiss your collection away for a couple of weeks and work on getting to know your partner. Unlocking the secrets of her body will make you a better lover and a better swinger and sometimes doing the self-service makes you all about the efficiency rather than the entire hot process.